The International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia (IDAHOBIT) is a global moment of solidarity and visibility for LGBTQIA+ people. It’s observed every year on 17 May, and brings together individuals, organisations and governments from around the world to raise awareness about the issues facing the LGBTQIA+ community, to advocate for policies and laws that protect their rights, and create a global moment for collective action, awareness, solidarity and visibility.
Importance of community for transgender individuals
A personal perspective
1. Support network
Isaac highlighted how his family played a crucial role in his journey by proactively helping him with legal name changes and offering emotional support. He expressed his gratitude, noting that many trans individuals face homelessness due to lack of family acceptance.
“My family were great… they haven’t just celebrated who I am, but have been there for every step of the way.”
2. Finding your people
Although friends and family were supportive, living on the Isle of Wight initially left Isaac feeling isolated in terms of being able to connect with others on a similar journey. Isaac later found a great community in London, including friends who celebrate his ‘T-a-versary’ (anniversary of starting testosterone). This network helped him embrace his identity openly.
“I found my people… I’m surrounded by people who I celebrate my trans-a-versary with every year.”
3. Combating isolation
Growing up in an environment with no LGBTQIA+ representation, Isaac felt isolated until he discovered online resources and communities. He explained how finding others with shared experiences alleviates feelings of being alone.
“Finding that vocabulary [online]… made it easier to conceptualise who I was.”
4. Collective advocacy
He stressed that community is key to education and advocacy, helping dismantle stereotypes and pushing for societal change. Representation in media and peer support networks are vital for visibility.
“It’s important to create dialogue about people’s differences.”
5. Safety and belonging
Isaac contrasted his early struggles with his current confidence, underscoring how community fosters safety. He advises young trans individuals to seek out supportive spaces, like LGBTQIA+ charities or social groups.
“There are people out there that will celebrate who you are, as you should be celebrated.”
The importance of allyship
Imperial College London has published some important ways to be a better ally. You can check out their site, but here’s the key takeaways:
1. Listen
Pay attention to what LGBTQIA+ people are saying. Let individuals guide conversations about their identity and respect the terms they use for themselves.
2. Educate yourself
Stay informed through news, blogs and resources. Pink News is a great place to start. Also take time to learn about inclusive language and the importance of pronouns.
3. Be visible in your support
Show your allyship by participating in LGBTQIA+ events, wearing symbols like rainbow lanyards, and openly supporting inclusion.
4. Respect confidentiality
Never share someone’s LGBTQIA+ identity without their consent. Always check how open they are before discussing it with or in front of others.
5. Avoid assumptions
Don’t assume someone’s gender identity or sexual orientation. Use inclusive language like ‘partner’ instead of gender-specific terms.
6. Challenge discrimination
Speak up against homophobic and transphobic remarks. Undertaking training in ‘Active Bystander’ workshops can help with this.
7. Support LGBTQIA+ charities
Engage with and support LGBTQIA+ charities by volunteering, raising awareness or donating.
8. Amplify marginalised voices
Make space for underrepresented LGBTQIA+ voices, including those of people of colour, trans, non-binary, and disabled individuals.
Join people across the globe on IDAHOBIT Day as we celebrate the LGBTQIA+ community. For more information on IDAHOBIT Day and how to get involved, visit https://may17.org/.
